Getting married was always part of our plan — we just didn’t expect to do it from two different continents.

When you’re in a relationship separated by distance, especially with military deployment, everything gets more complicated. Time zones, travel restrictions, planning — even picking a date can feel impossible.

We wanted to start our life together. But a traditional wedding just kept falling through.

Then we found out we could have a legal virtual wedding.

At first, we thought it was some kind of loophole. But after researching, we learned that states like Utah offer fully virtual marriages — with a licensed officiant and official paperwork — and they’re recognized across the U.S..

We decided to go for it.

Here’s how it worked for us:

• We uploaded our IDs and filled out a quick form.
• We scheduled our wedding time with an officiant who was licensed for online ceremonies.
• We invited our small circle to join via Zoom.
• And when the day came, we logged on, said our vows, and just like that — we were married.

I said “I do” from my living room. My spouse-to-be said it from their military base.

It was emotional. It was easy. And it was ours.

The officiant made it feel official. The ceremony was short but meaningful. And we received our certified marriage certificate the same day — no courthouse, no plane tickets, no headaches.

Since then, we’ve used our online marriage to handle insurance updates, and every agency has accepted it — no issues at all.

If you’re separated by borders, don’t wait. Online marriage is legal, and it’s a beautiful way to start your future — even get more info if you’re not in the same place.

We’re proof that love doesn’t need borders — and that what matters most is the vows.